We never knew Alex, but Ian his dad was the first person to cross Brodie's palm with silve when she was born in 2007. We are neighbours and we were never lucky enough to know Alex, but we are lucky enough to know your family. I don't know how Ian and Wendy feel , but I so know how Ollie feels. my gorgeous sister Gemma died in NCCU on 29.9.97. I cannot say anything else other than life can be horrible sometimes. lots of love always Clare, Nick and Brodie x